




Musings and ramblings of a busy Mom of three busier boys and one baby girl!








Next we met Keith's child-hood friend Dan, his wife, Juanita and family. We spent a day together and went to the Air Zoo in Kalamazoo. That was a lot of fun for the kids.
Some of the kids beside a real Blackbird. (The world's fastest plane, or something like that. Caleb could tell you all about it probably.) 




Why are Mondays so.... Monday-ish??
As far as Mondays go, today was pretty much a bummer. Sigh. So, now I'm going to complain a bit, and then I'm going to be thankful, so hold on for the end of the post...
The "badness" started in the middle of the night when Hannah was awake and fussy off and on for an hour or two (it's hard to keep track in the wee hours!). Keith and I took turns trying to get her settled down. I finally thought maybe it was her ears or teeth and Keith gave her Advil. That finally seemed to do the trick. But the damage was done. I was tired! On top of that, I had a bad dream that pointed out some unresolved crud in my heart. :-(
So, I slept in, which I guess I needed, but that put our day behind schedule. Then, I made the (rebellious) mistake of checking the weather and email before spending any time with Jesus, and then it was too late. Duh.
After that it was a series of mis-haps, mistakes, and mayhem...
- Logan woke up with the sure conviction that he, in fact, was in charge and I definitely wasn't.
- I was feeling grumpy and out-of-sorts. I ended up getting angry at the kids and yelling and it was pretty ugly around here. By the time we were done with breakfast and chores, I knew we had to back up and take care of stuff. So we spent some time talking, repenting and praying. After a discipline session with Logan, I sent him back to bed and told him we were going to pretend that we were starting the day all over.
- Logan and Caleb were HYPER. Made me want to never feed them another gram of sugar again. Ever.
- It was raining and cold today.
- I tried three times to start a fire in the stove and it never did take off - until Keith came home and dumped something very flammable and stinky on it. So I was cold a good bit of the morning.
- Caleb has a runny nose and his first instinct is to snort. Gross! Then when he does blow, he leaves dirty tissues everywhere. Grrr. Tomorrow I'm going to charge him $.10 for every snort and every tissue laying around. Money talks to that boy!
- Caleb "shared" his runny nose with Josiah, who is taking it to another level and is pretty miserable tonight. More on that later.
- Logan broke a stapler and I found a section of staples - sharp side up - on the dining room floor.
- Caleb broke a cool little car we just got at a garage sale on Sat.
- Keith had a rough morning and then took a night shift at the ambulance tonight. We hardly had any time to talk, which left me feeling rather dis-connected, but we did talk on the phone tonight, so that's good.
- Josiah didn't take a nap today. (I gave up around 3:30 or so.)
- I had to discipline Josiah a bajillion times today for a particular behaviour that we're trying to irradicate.
-I dug a small piece of plastic out of Hannah's mouth tonight - I'm guessing it was from the broken car.
- I sent Josiah to go pee this evening and when I went in there a bit later, I found pee All Over the floor. He claimed he was trying to go in the potty, and I think I believe him. Not 100% sure.
- Josiah has already been half awake and crying three times tonight. I feel like just not going to bed at all because I'm afraid I won't get any sleep anyway. He did this about 3 or 4 weeks ago when he had a cold. He woke up crying and inconsolable about 9 times during the night. And, ironically, that was also a night when Keith was doing a night shift and I hardly got any sleep.
So. That's the garbage. As I was thinking about this post earlier this evening, I realized that even with all the junk today, I still have a long list of things to be thankful for, if I just stop and look for them. So, here's the good stuff that I'm thankful for:
- Hannah didn't choke on anything today. (That girl puts Everything in her mouth!) Of course, I have no idea what all she ate off of the floor! :-)
- My boys forgave me for my anger and harsh words.
- Supper was delicious (and came from the freezer, so it was very little work!)
- No one stepped on the staples!
- For the first time since Thursday or Friday, every dirty dish was either washed or in the dishwasher tonight. (We came close a few times over the weekend, but never got around to that one pan that was soaking...)
- Kisses. From my handsome hubby and precious little boys .
- I was finally able to start the laundry tonight - after wanting to do it all day.
- Josiah is actually having fewer accidents and starting to tell me when he needs to go.
- And, he hasn't pooped in his underwear for a few days. He's been going in his diaper when I put him down for a nap. Works for now I guess.
- Hannah really is a good baby.
- Caleb was very willing to lay down with Josiah tonight so I could get Hannah to bed.
- Caleb can be a very compassionate big brother.
- Logan got himself and Caleb a bed-time snack without any help from me.
- Logan and Caleb willingly cleaned up toys, etc. while I was getting Hannah to bed.
- With the two "littles" asleep, we were able to do some reading that we didn't get done today. And we were in a much better frame of mind than when we tried this afternoon. Instead of "I don't like this book!", I heard, "Read more!"
- In spite of hyperness and bad attitudes, the boys actually did quite well on their school work today.
- I was able to sweep the floor and put away some miscellaneous stuff this afternoon. Yay. Let's hear it for sweeping!
- This afternoon, Keith and I watched part of a Beth Moore video that we watched in our ladies' Sunday School class yesterday. (I got there late and didn't get to see the whole thing, so I borrowed it.) It is So Good! It's from her Bible study series called, "Breaking Free" and the session is titled "God's Unfailing Love." I think I should write a whole post about that, but we'll see. I have so much growing to do, but she offers so much hope!
- My Father God, loves me!!!!
- Yeah, there's a small mountain of laundry, but hey, we have clothes to wear! And I have four precious kids to make them dirty!
- Caleb and Logan can do chores! Today Caleb sorted the laundry and Logan cleaned the bathroom counter and sink.
- Tomorrow we get to start swimming lessons. We're all excited. And I'm a little nervous about getting us all out the door by 9:10!!
- Any day now, "my" new computer (a refurbished MacBook) will be arriving. And I won't ever have to use this stinking, old, dinosaur of a PC any more! Oops, this was supposed to be the thankful list. Let's see... I've been very thankful for it's years - or was that months - of somewhat faithful service. And for the friend who put it together and gave it to us!
- Tomorrow night I get to go to a Stampin' Up party. Just me. No kidlets. Just grown-up ladies, who can carry on grown-up conversations. And after that, a prayer time with some ladies from church. What could be better!
So, as you see, I really do have many things to be thankful for! I just need to remember them and thank my Completely Gracious and Good Heavenly Father!
Now, my question is, do I go to bed and try to get some sleep, or just sit here at the computer and work all night. Josiah has already been awake and crying 4 - no, make that 5 - times and it's only 11:45. He "barks" like a seal and his nose is all stuffy. He's been laying on the living room floor for the past while. Poor little guy!
If you've read all the way to the end, congratulations. You're a true friend - or very bored! :-) And now I will quit rambling!!
For a long time I've thought that I would want to home-school my children – at least for the first few years (when it's the “easiest”) Haha. That goes to show what I knew way back then. Anyway, when the time came to start educating Caleb, there was no longer a Christian school here, and public school wasn't what we wanted to do. So the only option I was left with was home-schooling. I wasn't always sure if I was doing it because we really wanted to, or because it was our only option.
And next week we start swimming lessons, so that takes care of Phys. Ed. Well, that and all the running, jumping, and riding bike they do anyway!
I really didn't mean to "talk your ear off like that." You don't have to read the whole thing... :-) It's time to head for bed... Oh, ugh. I told Caleb I'd order some shoes for him from Sears before I go to bed tonight. The poor child has no shoes - only sandals, dress shoes, and rubber boots. Sometimes it's not so good being the oldest. There are no hand-me-downs when you need something now! Okay, I'm signing off!
Lists are made.
Dress is sewn.
Boys' hair is cut.
A few fingernails got trimmed - but not all of them.
I'm real tired.
I found something to wear to Emily's wedding on Saturday.
I had to alter it.
I learned how to bake wedding cakes today.
The laundry is almost done.
Tomorrow is Packing Day.
I feel like I'm running a marathon.
In three and a half days we'll be in Indiana.
In six days Matthew and Rhonda and the girls will be there too.
That's very exciting.
I'm going to bed.
We had a great time at my little reunion two weeks ago. We used to be just four young girls – 30 years later we’re 4 ladies, 4 husbands and 24 (soon to be 25) children! It was hard to know whether to reminisce or catch up from the last umpteen years. We hadn’t all been together at one time for about 20 years. Thank God for friends!
As soon as we got home, we dove right into VBS. It went quite well, I’d say. There were anywhere from 31 – 41 kids. It was exhausting though, and it’s good to be done for anther year.
Overheard at Sheldon’s late at night:
Sheldon (nagging Alicia about chewing her fingernails): “I read that chewing your fingenails reduces life expectancy the same as smoking a pack a day.”
Sara: “But it’s cheaper!”
I howled with laughter, but it was pretty late. Not sure if it’s funny now…
The ratio of sunshine: rain has finally tipped more in favor of the sunshine! Yay! It’s an absolutely gorgeous day (and I need to go to the basement and sew!) (That was yesterday. Today it rained most of the day again.)
My dress for Rachel’s wedding is about 65% done. Maybe more. Tomorrow I’m going to sew the bodice and skirt together and then wait for my friend Phyllis to put in the invisible zipper. (I never learned to do those things. I always had Mom do it.) It’s looking really pretty.
It’s only 9 days until we hit the road for Indiana and Rachel and Dave’s big day. Mercy! It’s gonna be a marathon until then!
I’m convinced Hannah has/had another (the fourth?) ear infection. This happened two weeks ago and again this week. She was fussy about drinking her bottle and would usually only take a 3 – 5 oz. at a time. So, I started in on the onion/garlic/olive oil treatment and also did vinegar for good measure. I started yesterday and today I could already tell a big difference. She’s taking 7-8 oz. at a time. Two weeks ago I did the same treatment and it seemed to work then too. Craziness!
I’m trying to start exercising again. It’s so hard to get back into the routine – especially when I’m still so tired that I rarely get up early. I miss my early morning walks…
That's all for tonight. It's way past my bed-time!
- Our computer (PC) is either sick or dead, not sure which. The mac still works of course, but Keith hasn’t figured out how to hook it up to the internet at home. So I’m at church doing this.
- I told you awhile ago I was going to have a vacation for a few days. Well, it was really nice! Just so you know. With my little “vacation” and camping, I’ve actually read a few novels in the last few weeks. And I’ve developed some opinions about a couple of authors. J
- Today I trimmed a shrub for the first time. I really didn’t know what I was doing and didn’t have the proper tool for the job, but it still looks better than before I started.
- Josiah is a little bit pigeon-toed. One foot turns in a little. Should I be concerned?
- Remember awhile ago when Josiah fell down the stairs and had a little “seizure” of some sort? Later he had a really tiny one after hitting his head. Well, he did it again a couple of days ago. He fell off a riding toy backwards and hit his head on the brick patio. He cried really hard – the kind where you don’t breathe for awhile, cried more softly a couple times, then went “spacey” for just a few seconds. Then he sat on my lap for a long time. Should I take him to the doctor?
- Hannah is completely weaned now. I pumped for a few weeks, but that was getting pretty old. She’s doing quite well, but she’s not on a very consistent schedule. Oh well. Just don’t tell Gary Ezzo!
- I started my dress for Rachel’s wedding. Well, I made a practice bodice with some ugly, old, brown calico. I was pleased that it was quite close to fitting properly the first time. I think I’ll try one more before I cut into the real thing.
- Next weekend we’re going to MN. The purpose of the trip is a reunion with three friends from my childhood, Jewell, Eunice and Prisilla. We were inseperable when we were about 8 until we started moving away one by one (except Priscilla who still lives in MN. Anyway, we all turned 40 in the last year or so, and so we’re having a reunion. We haven’t all been together since Jewell’s wedding in about 1989, I think. (Eunice and Priscilla, you can correct me here if I’m wrong.) And between the four of us, we have 24 children and one more on the way (for the youngest, Eunice, who just turned 40 last month.) I think we’ll have a rollicking good time!
- We went to the beach Thursday for the first time. It was a little chilly, but the kids had fun playing on the playground equipment, and swimming just a little.
- Today I found a young girl who’s going to come help me once a week for a day or half-day during the summer. Thank you, Jesus! I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed with all the stuff to do this summer, so I think this will help. I’ll have her help with housework, summer projects, and playing with the kids so I can sew or paint up on a ladder or something like that.
- This might just be the summer to paint the trim around the windows (outside) and paint my front door green (sage, not grass). I’ve wanted to do that ever since we moved in four years ago.
- Did I ever mention that when I was in IN in May, Keith (and Jeff) put new carpet in the boys’ bedroom? We had gotten a really good deal on a remnant, but I didn’t know when it would get installed. So, that was a really nice surprise! Keith said it was my Mother’s Day present. J
- This next week looks very overwhelmin with getting ready to go away for the weekend, and getting ready for VBS, which starts next Sunday night. We’re leaving Sheldon’s on Sunday morning so we can get back in time for that. Oh my. Pray for me, please?
How could evolution possibly be true? Isn’t it based on the premise that order can come spontaneosly from chaos? Have any of us ever seen that happen? On the contrary, don’t we witness the exact opposite every day??
Last fall I got in the “declare war on clutter” mode and this house was really looking good – even the corners and closets. Of course, with the arrival of Hannah in January, my “extra tme” disappeared and things started to slide into chaos. At this point, I would say that clutter and chaos definitely have the upper hand in this house. It’s driving me a little crazy. If I believed in evolution, I’d be hopefully watching a pile of stuff (books that need to find a home on a bookshelf, out-grown kid’s clothes, etc.) to see if it turns into some kind of masterpiece – say a set of china dishes (in my pattern of course), or a new computer (to replace our archaic PC that is on it’s way to the doctor – or possibly the cemetary.) Alas, it doesn’t seem to be happening.
So, yesterday I dug in and re-arranged the kids’ dressers and closets. It’s not all done, but I got a really good start anyway. It felt really good to shake my fist in the face of clutter just a little bit.
Last weekend was our church camp-out. There were quite a few people signed up, and then the forecast looked pretty bad. We headed down the road Friday evening even though it was supposed to rain. We bought chicken and potato wedges before we left and ate them when we got to the camp-ground. Derek and Elise were already there, and two other families/groups in campers. One other family came later. Everyone else chickened out that night. And I couldn’t really blame them. It rained most of the evening, through-out the night and the next morning. We had the fun of setting up camp in the rain. Thankfully, Keith put up a big tarp first, before it started to rain hard. We set up our tent under the tarp and then slid it out so the entrance was just under the tarp.
By Saturday afternoon, the weather cleared up and we had great weather the rest of the time. Tuesday was a holiday (Canada Day) and Keith also had Monday off. Derek’s were staying longer, so we did too. Jeff and Wendy and Dad and Dru came down on Monday. We ended up staying Monday night too. That was where we went wrong. We were getting kinda tired of camping by then and wouldn’t you know, we had a major thunderstorm early Tuesday morning and then had to pack up in the rain. Oh well, the kids had a blast and we had some fun too. I think it was the first time that I really had my fill of camping. Well, except for last summer when I was pregnant. I’ll just say that camping with a baby and a pre-schooler is rather exhausting. Hannah wasn’t the most content, and Josiah loves to run/wander away. But hey, we kept them both alive, so that’s a good thing. Maybe next year camping will be more fun. J
Jeff improvised a swing for Dylan.
The dangers of camping and heating bottles.
The kids and popcorn. left to right: Josiah, Trevor, Logan, Tia, Alabama.
Trevor kissing Papa's fish. (Don't ask me!)
Scotty and Mary L. having a little moment together.
AnneJisca enjoying her home-made ice cream. The best part of the day! :-)
John and Esther.
Our bravest camper. Yes, she was there all weekend!
Logan, after playing in the clay/mud at the beach. It was even in his hair!
We borrowed a kiddie picnic table from another camp-site. It was great for the kids.
Tia, our little monkey.
Grandma Dru and Hannah. Hannah wasn't terribly impressed with "camping."
Dylan enjoying the day and his "bumbo".
I decided that my sheep must be shorn, or else, so we did it in the great outdoors. I think I cut 3" off of Caleb's. :-)
Scotty and Wendy chillin' out.
On the way home we saw these two and a moose as well!